Book Review: Love + Work, Conclusion of Part I
When you think of your work and the job you do daily, is there anything you love about that job? You don’t have to love all of it, but you should enjoy some parts.
When you are doing something that you love and something that gives you passion, time speeds up because you are enjoying the activity and are unaware of yourself or time. While not all of us love everything we do in our jobs, every single day, we should find what Marcus Buckingham refers to as “your red threads.” You may be thinking, "Red thread? I don’t work with fibers; what is this red thread?"
Your red thread, as Marcus explains, are activities that give you positive emotions when you are doing them. They excite you and drive you to want to do more. Your red thread is often linked to your "wyrd" (your distinct spirit). While not everything in our jobs may be our red thread, there may be pieces within your daily job that are that red thread. Maybe coaching your team drives you and gives you positive energy to want to do more and see them continue to succeed. It could be preparing budgets and finding ways to save the company money. Whatever it is, when you find it, try to incorporate that into your daily or weekly activities.
Encourage your team to find their red threads as well. Each person may have something different, and together your team can have more positive energy throughout the day because they are all finding those things that drive them and that they enjoy doing.
If your red thread isn’t obvious when you think about it, try asking yourself the following questions related to the things you frequently do.
When was the last time…
- you lost track of time?
- you instinctively volunteered for something?
- someone had to tear you away from what you were doing?
- you felt completely in control of what you were doing?
- you surprised yourself by how well you did?
- you were singled out for praise?
- you were the only person to notice something?
- you found yourself actively looking forward to work?
- you came up with a new way of doing things?
- you wanted the activity to never end?
These questions can be used by you and your team to think about what that red thread could be. When you go through the questions, answer them instinctively, off the top of your head. Once you find that red thread, the goal is to weave them into your daily activities.
Once the red threads are identified, then your strengths will often just click into place. You will find yourself operating with more positive energy throughout the day, even during activities that you are not fond of doing.
We hope you have enjoyed Part I of Love + Work. We encourage you to share the information with your team to help to build a stronger team by identifying their individual strengths and passions within the workplace.
Stay tuned for Part 2 — "Seven Devils (You’ll Meet Along the Way and How to Outwit Them)."